Love Goes With Trust

January 28, 2016

 

I was working in a cubicle at a major bank doing home loan underwriting. While there, I met an older gentlemen, whose name I won’t mention here.

Fast forward a few years later and he’s now my best friend and mentor. He’s like a Father to me.

Well, a few hours ago, just before writing this blog post, he shared something with me via the phone that was so important and so key to relationship building. It is something I know I’ll be keeping in mind for the rest of my life…and that…is the issue of real love.

In his own words, as I listened to him over the phone, he told me this:

Some people never get to experience real love. In order to truly love the way you’re supposed to love — where you give all of your love instead of holding back out of fear — is to be filled with God — because God is Love.

Some people will never know this kind of love — the love that says that the other person with you is free.

Even now, Kendall, you only know of a certain level of love. But there is a type of love greater than where you are, Kendall, that you know nothing about

Wow and double wow.

And he was right. Being single (at the time of writing this blog post of course) and writing this article, it is true. I do not know what it is like to love a spouse. But, I should know what it is like and what it means to love a person.

1 Corinthians 13 is the scripture that often reminds me what love is and is not and my friend continued to explain what He had learned and large amounts of it were very Biblical.

If you truly love someone you will trust them. Some people have zero trust, and therefore, can’t love that person fully. Because they can’t learn that person fully, it is evident that they do not have real, true and genuine love. At least, not enough love that person, regardless of how they may have treated you or regardless of what you may think is in there heart.

Imagine what could happen if we actually opened up, loved more and genuinely cared and trusted one another.

We just need to get over our fear.

Starting A Kickstarter

January 28, 2016
Dylan Randolmill and Walter Ayo sitting in front of a computer from the webcomic "By and By"

Dylan Randolmill and Walter Ayo sitting in front of a computer from the webcomic “By and By”

 

As an update to all of you, I just started a Kickstarter campaign that should hopefully be approved in the next few days. I’ll let everyone, including you, know that the campaign is live.

The Kickstarter campaign is for my webcomic, “By and By,” which follows the story of 11-year-old Walter Ayo and his socially awkward existence.

I created the Kickstarter campaign and sent it off for review on Tuesday in an effort to earn the money needed to get equipment that will improve my webcomic exponentially.

I’ll continue to update you here as I go on this Kickstarter journey. It is my first time using Kickstarter for something so important and I’m looking forward to see how things unfold.

Keep Telling Your Story

January 22, 2016

 

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One of my favorite bloggers wrote an article about…well…blogging. After reading John Saddington’s article, I found myself feeling a bit motivated about the idea of continually blogging and sharing my story a bit more.

As you visit this page, you know quite a bit about me: video guy, cartoonist, writer, blogger, minister and the list goes on and on.

However, those areas of experience do not necessarily cover all there is to know about Kendall J. Lyons.

And, know what, that’s perfectly fine. That’s where my blog comes in, and, I’m just fine with that.

With that, I’ll keep telling the stories…the stories of great accomplishments…the stories of great failures…the stories that are funny…and the stories that make you think…and to be honest…should make you consider life and how we live it.

 

 

IMG_0623It was at age 13 that I received my first journal as a gift from my Mother.

I wasn’t sure what I would actually write about or if I would even bother journaling in the first place. But, the minute I put a pen to that paper, I was hooked. I was able to release a TON of thoughts and concerns and anxieties that I had as I sojourned through what was essentially an awkwardly yet successfully survived and blessed boyhood.

Even though I do love the digital touch of blogging, for me, theirs something about writing in a journal that really capstones my experience as a writer.

Therapeutic

I needed this growing up. As a kid, I would often visit the school counselor like I was a modern day Charlie Brown. But, journaling did something similar for me. I really found myself being able to release junk that was floating in my mind and on my heart onto paper. I’m not going to lie, it felt weird sometimes being THAT honest with myself. But, I knew that I could be. I had the space, the privacy and the resources to be able to just be real on paper. It also helped that the journal I had at age 13 had a lock on it that was so efficient that the NSA couldn’t get to it.

Tracking My Progress

As a Christian, as a man and as someone whose totally imperfect and who has the potential for failure at any given time, it is imperative for me to keep a journal of my thoughts, feelings, ideas and everything that pours out from my mind and heart. I journal because it keeps me focused on always  living and operating better as well as reminding me to remain humble. I have wrote about things in my journal that to this day still make me blush and scratch my head. Because of this, when I revisit my old journals, I am quickly reminded of how far the Lord brought me and, frankly, reminded of how blessed I am and how I am not deserving of how good I have it. Because I check back on those old journals, I can celebrate my successes and be reminded of my mission.

Keeps My Ideas Balanced

I come up with multiple ideas during the day about multiple things. I wonder sometimes if I’m ADD I come up with so much stuff. But, journaling and writing keeps things focused. Oddly enough, I wasn’t journaling or blogging as much and because of that I was suffering. My Pastor called me out on it (thanks uncle). As he’s always told me, “if you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” So, I got back into journaling in my book and writing down my journey and planning forward and I started seeing things materialize before me. This is SO key for me.

Best Gift Idea

I bet that if you give a significant other or even your kids, grandkids or nieces or nephews or cousins a journal, I bet you they will come up with all kinds of things to write about or even draw.

You might be surprised! They may need it.