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A few days ago I was watching “Being Ian,” a cartoon series that I have over the year grown quite fond of.

The story follows a boy named Ian Kelley and his family and friends. In this particular episode, Ian was trying to get a movie he made for a contest submitted to an awards group in Los Angeles.

The contest was ALL that Ian could think about. He was on his way to Los Angeles via an RV family road trip with his father, mother and two brothers. Only, one problem! Everything that could go wrong went wrong.

Of course Ian, being who he is, filmed with his video camera every single event that took place with his family on the trip.

Ian’s dad was all about staying true to an itinerary of multiple stops and side trips which made Ian anxious.

In an attempt to try and get to Los Angeles more quickly, Ian messes with his dad’s itinerary. Ian’s dad finds out and refuses to change his plans. While they make it to Los Angeles on time, they have a wreck in Hollywood that leaves Ian no choice but to throw out his copy of the movie in order to keep from falling off the Hollywood sign with the RV.

He tries to get his friends from back home to make a copy, but, the copy is deleted.

All at the end of the 2-part episode seems lost. That is, until Ian realized that the footage that he shot could be made into a movie.

As it turned out, the journey that Ian filmed turned out to be a win for him.

And such as our own lives.

We get so hung up in getting to a destination, goal, outcome and circumstance.

We get so wrapped up, stressed out and anxiety riddled over getting things to go our way.

Philippians 4:6-7 says this:

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

In the middle of the journey, it’s easy to get impatient. It’s easy to feel as though things are not moving as quickly as it should.

But, the believer in Christ is reminded in scripture to be anxious for nothing. The believer is also reminded that the anxiety is replaced with the “peace of God” which “surpasses all understanding” and will “guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”

When the journey seems long, tumultuous or even just plain boring and tedious, my heart and mind is kept in Christ when I’m not filled with anxiety. When I am in prayer and when I’m thankful my perspective is placed into proper position in order for me to continue this wild and crazy journey called life.

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Let’s Make Sacrifices

December 25, 2017

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Usually when I talk to my friend and mentor, Gerald, I share certain things I’ve learned from him here. So, here we go!

“The word of the day is ‘Sacrifice,'” he said.

Why? Because all too often we expect a major change with little results. We expect things to happen for us and to change for us without putting forth the effort or making the challenges that are necessary.

I listened intently to the examples Gerald made about sacrificing. He touched on the importance of sacrifice in Old Testament scripture as well as the daily sacrifices we make.

Thing is, we have to choose to make those sacrifices.

We take on the second job so we can make ends meet or save up for the vacation or for the next big project we have up our sleeve.

We stay up that extra hour after our normal bedtime to write or blog or draw that comic strip.

Sacrifice is doing something different TODAY so you can have a different TOMORROW.

Otherwise, everything stays the same.

Now, supposing that you’re unbelievably frustrated and tired and simply bitter and the idea of sacrificing and…dare I say it…sacrificing more, is a bit overwhelming.

I get it.

The conversation between Gerald and I finished with the encouragement to continue sacrificing.

Because the truth is this…you can’t quit before it is time.

Love Goes With Trust

April 11, 2017

 

I was working in a cubicle at a major bank doing home loan underwriting. While there, I met an older gentlemen, whose name I won’t mention here.

Fast forward a few years later and he’s now my best friend and mentor. He’s like a Father to me.

Well, a few hours ago, just before writing this blog post, he shared something with me via the phone that was so important and so key to relationship building. It is something I know I’ll be keeping in mind for the rest of my life…and that…is the issue of real love.

In his own words, as I listened to him over the phone, he told me this:

Some people never get to experience real love. In order to truly love the way you’re supposed to love — where you give all of your love instead of holding back out of fear — is to be filled with God — because God is Love.

Some people will never know this kind of love — the love that says that the other person with you is free.

Even now, Kendall, you only know of a certain level of love. But there is a type of love greater than where you are, Kendall, that you know nothing about

Wow and double wow.

And he was right. Being single (at the time of writing this blog post of course) and writing this article, it is true. I do not know what it is like to love a spouse. But, I should know what it is like and what it means to love a person.

1 Corinthians 13 is the scripture that often reminds me what love is and is not and my friend continued to explain what He had learned and large amounts of it were very Biblical.

If you truly love someone you will trust them. Some people have zero trust, and therefore, can’t love that person fully. Because they can’t learn that person fully, it is evident that they do not have real, true and genuine love. At least, not enough love that person, regardless of how they may have treated you or regardless of what you may think is in there heart.

Imagine what could happen if we actually opened up, loved more and genuinely cared and trusted one another.

We just need to get over our fear.

HELD BACK

Nothing like a good friend and mentor to help snap you out of strange thought patterns. That actually happened to me a few hours before writing this blog.

I have a friend and mentor, Gerald, whom I talk to often about topics like manhood, social issues and life. He actually spoke some pretty powerful and encouraging words. He often reminds me that I’m responsible for pushing forward and having faith to believe that things will come together.

THAT is a hard thing to believe. As a Christian, it is essential that I have faith and believe that God can and will do as He promised. And, it is important that faith accompanies whatever activity that is good and noble and purposed in my life.

And yet, it is a fight! A daily fight!

You have to fight for the time. You have to fight through distractions. You have to fight to focus. You have to fight through aches and pains. You have to fight through moments of just not feeling like it. You have to fight through feelings and emotions that run contrary to what is in your heart.

In me is this yearning desire to write and draw and create and to make a difference in the world. And my friend, Gerald, knows it! The next questions came.

“What’s stopping you!?”

The answer…nothing. Nothing but me. And maybe that’s you. Maybe the reason you’ve not made it to that certain place in life is because you’ve not pushed as hard as you could. Or maybe you don’t believe that what you have to offer…that your gifts and talents…or that your ideas…are simply of no value.

We often stop ourselves before we even bother doing or creating. I run into people all the time who talk big about the “projects” they are “working on” but the projects never materialize. It’s embarrassing…and I refuse to fall into that category.

So…what is holding you back!? And what can you do differently to change that!